I overheard a friend tell my husband they would love to have a cleaner, but they can't justify paying the money when they could just do it themselves. My husband simply replied "I dont pay the cleaner to clean my house. I pay £20 a week ao my wife doesn't cry everyday anymore. I think that's a bargain."Read this before contacting the mod team. My husband (27M) and myself (28M) have had a pretty rough year financially. We moved to a new city, and both ended up taking lower paying jobs than usual, and have had a hard time budgeting with our new salaries. So, for Christmas we promised we would cut back on gifts for each other, setting a $50 ...Some church offering jokes are “Country Church Stewardship” and a joke about Mary’s birthday gift. Another joke tells the story about little Johnny buying candy with his offering m...AITA for telling my MIL thats it’s not her money? Not the A-hole. Throwaway, I 33 (F) and my husband, Bill (34M) eloped the day after our college graduation. We had only been dating for about a year and a half then and I had only spoken to his family over the phone. We were young and dumb but this isn’t a decision I regret.AITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.I emailed my grandma, and she came to my last wrestling match, which was yesterday. My grandma took me to get ice cream and I explained everything. What happened in my last post as well as everything else that's been going on this past year. She agrees with a lot of you guys that my mom is probably being abused and needs help. We're looking ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my mom's husband I'm so glad he didn't get to name me? Not the A-hole. My mom and her husband are expecting a baby together. I'm 17F and was my mom's only child until she got pregnant. Her husband has no kids. So some context on this: My name is a bit of a sore issue with my mom.We don't have a prenup, so this means that my wife has a right to at least 25% of my separate property if I die even if I were to disinherit her in my will. I've decided to will her 30% of my separate property (was previously 100%) and 100% of our communal property if I die. The rest of my separate property, including income-producing assets ...But nope. Not you. You could have told your husband, “Eew. Yuck. You are sick,” and kicked him to the curb and gathered your wounded bird to your bosom and vowed to protect her. But nope, not you. YTA for destroying your daughter’s life with your piss poor parenting and self-involved behavior. Reply reply.There's a fine line between not giving your husband money because of his habits or your agreement and financial abuse. This isn't a term to use loosely, but you …My (42F) ex husband (45M) and I were together for 20 years. We had a beautiful daughter together, Joceline (14F). We got a divorce 5 years ago due to infidelity on his part. I was devastated. He was the love of my life and he betrayed all of the trust and loyalty we had built up. To make matters worse, he ended up in a relationship with the ...My cousin got with her husband by him cheating on his then wife. My cousin is always shocked and upset each and every time he cheated on her. She would fuss about it on Facebook and I almost spit out my drink when her husband's ex chimed in and reminded my cousin that she got him by his cheating and kept losing him by it.Mansplaining - Wikipedia. 21 August 2013 - Mansplaining (a blend word of man and the informal form splaining of the gerund explaining) is a pejorative term meaning " (for a man) to comment on or explain something, to a woman, in a condescending, overconfident, and often inaccurate or oversimplified manner".Food and service was amazing, had an artist draw me and my husband while we kissed. I noticed my MIL to be wearing a white simple dress, and didn't think much of it (even though I was a little upset). To have context, she is the only one besides me wearing the color. Later, when it was photo taking time, I was going to take a photo with my husband.Spare-Imagination132. •. NTA, your home is your sanctuary. You have been generous to let them live with you and save money for their own place. A baby completely changes the everything in the house. They are loud, will have to eventually baby proof, parents will tell you to be quiet and not wake the baby, etc..When I presented the plans to my husband he said that we could go to more cities in Italy and he could help me edit pictures for my photography blog. However, he also said that he needed to have meetings and do administrative housekeeping and he needed to do it in person. I was disappointed and he got upset and asked me to stop rolling my eyes. I told …Aita for telling my wife that I would choose my mom over the birth of our baby. Advice Needed. So, this is a throwaway account. I will check some of these comments, but not all. So, to get started, I am 36m, and my wife is 33f. We are expecting our first child soon. My mother, who is 70, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and has been ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for refusing to lend my sister money and "flaunting" my wealth? Not the A-hole. I (38f) grew up with my sister (34f) and a single mom (who passed when we were in our early twenties). We were dirt poor and every day was a constant struggle. I resolved to work hard at school and try to make something better for myself.Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he's not wrong to assume that's on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I'm confused why you wouldn't have that conversation before marriage.Mark doesn't want my mom to work but he also doesn't give her money for us because thats our dads job so I was kinda on my own to get anything I needed. A guy at my school noticed I don't have a lunch most of the time so he started bringing extra food for me then I started going to his house after school. They've been really nice to me.Mind you in the photo that was posted on MY birthday which was during the time that we weren't talking while he decided he was already wearing a black wedding band which was her toxic claim on him. Now to the cheater cheating on the cheater. A friend of mine reached out to me nearly a year later asking who my ex was dating.There's a reason pregnancy is a life threatening condition. You need birth control your husband can't tamper with. I have 6 kids, all conceived on birth control. In my case, it's a medical condition. Basically, I am hyperfertile and my body breaks down birth control faster than most women.throwaway-36928. AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous ...ADMIN. UPDATE: AITA for wanting my husband to start paying more for our housing? UPDATE. An update to the 2020 post. I sincerely apologize for taking so long to return to Reddit and write an update to this. A lot has happened since. For those who don't know, this post was originally written at the end February of 2020.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Frankly, their reaction about who they would "allow" in their family now and forever absolves you of any guilt about not telling them. You don't need to apologize to them. They need to apologize to you and your husband. As for refunding them, they bought it, unasked, based purely on assumptions they made.AITA for telling my husband he should give me the jewellery he inherited from his grandmother. I (F32) have been with my husband (M33) for seven years. During this time, we've been fairly close. We don't have any kids, since I'm not a big fan of them, but he's always taken good care of me. Two weeks ago his grandmother died peacefully in her sleep.West Kirkland Mining News: This is the News-site for the company West Kirkland Mining on Markets Insider Indices Commodities Currencies StocksAITA for telling my husband everything, even when my children ask me not to. I (46F) tell my husband (57M) everything. We prefer to be open and honest with each other and enjoy this aspect of our relationship. This includes things our four children tell us individually, as we care about our children and want to help them together as partners.PJ-TJ. •. OP, make sure you 1) hire lawyer who works in trusts and estates, and 2) make sure executor and trustee ppwk is filed ASAP. It sounds like the father would not be above interceding and filing incorrect ppwk with a court, seeking to name himself executor and trustee so he can take the steps he outlined.OP, what your husband’s sister called you with is total BS and you shouldn’t give into that at all. The house and family you take care of is also your husband’s and the money he earns is also yours. You husband is spending the money he brings home and your inheritance like you owe him - you don’t.A. You are not going to disrespect me in my house. B. You are not going to tell me how to spend MY money. C. And you are not going to tell me I made you look bad when your children are on the receiving end of my love AND generosity. Nope. Get out. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️When me (f40) and my husband (m39) joined finances, my husband had a more stable salary and I was still studying but working part time. So we decided that we will try to live on his salary leaving mine for university fees, and other extras. He considered this as investment, hoping that I would finish my studies and get a much better salary on a full …Agree. Tons of men change their behavior when there's a pregnancy and baby involved. My ex also was "awesome" until I was pregnant, then suddenly "omg I am so stressed, I am under so much pressure, everyone is just against me"..then started going out by himself, staying out late, not telling me where he was going, etc.I wanted my mom with me because my mil is an overbearing - steamrolling type. My every concern, every query was ignored. My mom stayed with me because i asked her to stay in te room. I was worried that if i needed high level intervention my mil will put kids life over mine. My 2nd time was easier, i pushed for my own doc, own hosp etc.I've been married to my 2nd Husband "Mike" for 4 years now. He's a jokester and loves to crack jokes all the time. He especially like to joke with my brother "Ethan" and his wife. Ethan used to be okay with it til he started complaining about Mike taking it too far with his jokes. Some context about Ethan.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my step kids I'm not their mom? My husband (40M) and I (36F) have been together for 8 years now and our marriage have been rocky. When I met him he had twins, boy and girl. I love them like their my children, since it's hard for me to have kids they are mines. My husband and I tried for a baby last year and I became ...I told him he shouldn't have taken money from my family for being guests at our house, but he corrected me saying it's his house and said that he'd bet my family had never got to attend a cookout at a house like this and that it was just $25 dollars but I disrespected him and went behind his back and took money that wasn't mine.All gold material and again they are worth decent amount of money. My BIL has been with then gilfriend for 10 years and they recently got married. It was a huge deal for the family. My husband wanted to get them a decent wedding gift and tried borrowing money from friends and neighbors but got turned down.Nice-Cry-8280. AITA for telling my husband I threw out his clothes to teach him a lesson? 30f. I have 4 children (10yo triplets - 2 boys, 1 girl - from my previous marriage, their father passed when I was pregnant, and a 6mo with my current husband). Been with my husband for 4 years.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband to tell his mom to settle the baby. Not the A-hole. Obligotory English isn't my native language warning. I (F36) have a baby (10wks) with my husband (M36). Our son is amazing and a pretty easy baby. My son already sleeps through the night which is a godsend. However, this does require a strict nighttime ...My fiancé "Matt" claimed our daughter this year on his taxes and got back almost $9k because of it. I only made $800 less than him but we were told to have him claim her, as he did make more money. When he found out how much he was getting back, we came up with an agreement to put $6k of the money in to our daughters Roth Savings Account.And like any human being, we long to be accepted and belong in our communities. American Born Chinese is a great graphic novel about the self-hating Asian man. I gave it to my dad, actually. My dad is Asian, my mom is white. My dad moved to this very white and segregated city for his medical residency, met my mother, fell in love, and now we ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband to tell his mom to settle the baby. Not the A-hole. Obligotory English isn't my native language warning. I (F36) have a baby (10wks) with my husband (M36). Our son is amazing and a pretty easy baby. My son already sleeps through the night which is a godsend. However, this does require a strict nighttime ...1.) Telling my husband he was being selfish by buying tickets to his favorite band during the week I was planning a vacation for us for my 30th birthday. 2.) I should just be happy he got me a ticket to come with him and "share the experience". Help keep the sub engaging!Make sure what support you are paying now for 50/50 wage equalization is always paid by check or money order using the memo line to state, "<month> Child Support <kid1name, kid2name>." If you're paying cash, she can claim you didn't give it to her for support and then get support enforcement on you. You are NTA.AITA for telling my ex that her child isn't mine so I'm not sending her any money. I (23 Male) Just Recently Got Back In Contact With My Ex (22 Female) Laura (fake name), we broke up three years ago after I walked in on her and my friend (24 male) mark (fake name). She contacted me through Instagram from a new account since I blocked her on her ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my husband's family to mind their own effing business when they interfered in a disagreement my husband and I were having about our unborn son's name.Asshole. So earlier today I (28F) told my husband (30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him “im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands….By definition, husband has to spend almost every night with the kid. Be there for almost all breakfasts and dinners. I mean, the most that husband can realistically do with OP are times when kid is either with a babysitter, some activity or school. Once husband is custodial, OP and husband will no longer be living together.yeah he traumatized literal children who had lost their father, but somehow he is the victim. the mental gymnastics is astounding.. OP you're NTA btw, but if my husband did this, and if i were struggling with the idea that he had done it maliciously (as you said in another comment).. i'd be rethinking the type of person that i married. these are all pretty big red flags, and at a holiday ...Paying off debt, increasing savings, reducing taxes, investing for the future—with so many different money management goals to work on, it can be hard knowing where to focus your e...By the end of the night, he owed my brother-in-law around £5,000 which isn’t the type of money my brother can just easily hand over. When I saw my brother he looked like he was on the verge of a panic attack. After I forced him to tell me what happened I confronted my brother-in-law who thought the entire thing was just some harmless fun.A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!throwaway-36928. AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? Not the A-hole. I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous ...Yup. My parents married in 1956. My mother had to have my dad meet with the manager of Dayton's in Minneapolis to allow her to have a credit card. Stupid thing is my dad never could handle money, constantly overspent and mom took over all the finances by 1959. She also wasn't allowed to wear pants at her job at the University of Minnesota till ...My husband has always stood up for me in these scenarios. My MIL's birthday was last weekend, and my husband wanted to throw a celebration at our house. We went the whole nine yards with a cake and decorations. My husband also asked for my help picking out a very expensive handbag as a gift. I love my husband and I know he loves his mom, so I ...View on Libreddit, an alternative private front-end to Reddit. r/AmItheAsshole • u/Zealousideal_Fly4786 • Feb 07 '22. AITA for telling my husband. My money is …My husband stole my credit card, claiming "My wife's money is mine." I retorted, "Check the name?" My husband stole my credit card, claiming "My wife's money...AITA For Refusing To Let My Sister And Her Husband Stay In Mine And My Husband's Vaction Home. admin May 3, 2024 AITA. : ob_end_flush (): Failed to send buffer of zlib output compression (0) in on line.Sometimes going back to school to earn a first or second bachelor’s degree, postgraduate degree or college certificate seems like the best way to move careers forward. If your husb...NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.AITA for telling my daughter she has to accept my marriage? : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales of your local ...ADMIN MOD. UPDATE - AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? Previous Post. Craig and I were able to put the issue regarding the Mercedes behind us, and for the past week, we've been working towards finding a replacement. He was still leaning towards an SUV, and while I considered his opinion, it was ...ADMIN MOD. Aita for explaining to my husband he’s the reason we keep having daughters. I 30 F have 2 daughters and am currently pregnant with my 3rd girl. We just found out this morning. On the drive to my husband’s mothers house he explained how he was a bit disappointed about having a girl. But then he said “I should’ve expected this ...I love my brother a lot, but he knows that if he had ever made a move in one of my girlfriends, he would have ceased to be a brother to me, and that's only the beginning of it. Luckily my brother and I are way better than that. I would have forfeited the love of my life for him if I knew he was in love with her first, just because is him.2.7K Likes, 76 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp …Recently my stepdaughter and her mom have been going through rough times. Her mom had another child with her new husband, at one point my stepdaughter and her mom had such a bad fight that her mom attempted to end parental rights. Even if this were to occur, I couldn't imagine trying to replace her mom.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA for telling my sister it's "gold digging money" she's borrowing from me. Not in the US ... Now, I do have the amount of money Sarah needs. My husband heads his family company and gives me spending money every month in addition to a credit card he takes care of. I don't work—my days are spent looking after our two sons and, for ...Personally, my husband has always been extra protective so I think he's just being extra. I also don't understand why my kid spoke to him instead of straight to me. I don't think I am in the wrong here, just that my daughter has got the wrong idea and my husband is overreacting. AITA for telling my daughter how much things cost for her?Whenever I ask my husband to talk to his sister about the money he loaned her, he would tell me to chill and change the topic immediately. When I corner him, he would tell me that it's a small amount and he won't lose his sleep over it, and ask me to drop the topic altogether. It got to a point where I felt I should step in and ask her myself ...As the working parent in my relationship, it is your money as much as it is his. I know this is not how things are viewed in some cultures, yours included by the sound of it, but it is the reality. Without my husband staying home, we'd pay astronomical childcare fees. The amount you save your family in housekeeping and childcare is your earnings.I (30 f) have a 14 year old daughter Leia. Married my husband Mark (46 M) 6 years ago. He has two children from a previous marriage Koi (16 M) and Coral (14f). Me and Mark have the kids full time but his kids live with their mom for a few weeks during the summer. They moved into my lake house which has five bedrooms.My fiancé "Matt" claimed our daughter this year on his taxes and got back almost $9k because of it. I only made $800 less than him but we were told to have him claim her, as he did make more money. When he found out how much he was getting back, we came up with an agreement to put $6k of the money in to our daughters Roth Savings Account.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA asked my wife to help with the kids? My wife (Lisa) and I both 30s have 3 kids under 5. ... I've got a 1.5yo and 2.5yo and my husband has been away several times for 3-4 days with his mates. 2 weeks is a stretch but men do go away despite their spouses asking please stay home with me and the kids 😂 ... AITA for telling my brother to ...AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling. I 34F have recently ran into a situation with my husband 37M and am curious about if I am the AH here or not. So me and my husband have been tother for 8 years, married for 7.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My husband and I recently moved into the same city as his childhood best friend "Steve". Steve is allergic to all nuts, legumes and soy. Because of this, my husband wants our house to have a rule that we're not to have nuts in the house in case he comes over. I think this is a dumb rule and refuse to comply. I did agree to keep my nut-based ...I told my brother-in-law to ask my husband for the 5 grand my brother gambled away. My brother is the one who owes the money but I want my husband to pay it off even though my brother-in-law doesn't want that. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQr/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.My husband and I exchanged the earrings for the matching necklace during the weekend. Our girl loved it. We filmed her wearing it and thanking my father and his wife, and sent them the video. My father sent us an audio ("you're welcome, honey", "I love you", etc.) in response. My stepmother didn't reply, nor do I expect her to.I looked at my ex husband he couldn't even look me in the eyes. So I knew it was true. After I finished laughing I said to my dear husband that the divorce papers will be delivered to you by tonight. And you aren't getting shit from me because that prenup that you signed 5 years ago…"yeah you are fucked".r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA for telling my husband his "fragile masculinity" is costing us money? - Husband's Perspective . Before I begin this post; I'll add the disclaimer that this post is written from the perspective of the husband from the first post My wife showed me the post she made this morning so that I could see how people were reacting to her ...My husband (31m) has always been super fond of nicknames and has given me plenty of them. They constantly change and I have never minded any of the ones he's given me before. They're all quite harmless, usually food or animal related. But they tend to stick for a while. His family also uses nicknames.AITA for telling my wife I’m tired of raising a kid that is not mine. I (31m) am married to my wife Amber (30f) we have a daughter Emma (7f) the problem is my wife’s best friend Jennifer (30f) has a daughter as well Harper (7f) well Harpers dad is a lazy sack of crap and refuses to do anything with his daughter.Make sure what support you are paying now for 50/50 wage equalization is always paid by check or money order using the memo line to state, "<month> Child Support <kid1name, kid2name>." If you're paying cash, she can claim you didn't give it to her for support and then get support enforcement on you. You are NTA.I told my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister after he said he would pay for her wedding and buy her a house, since we are currently …In my home country the custom is for the man’s family to pay the woman’s family, and they also have to pay for the wedding, buy a house for the couple, etc. I’m not sure what that’s called in English. I find it problematic either way the money/gifts go - it sets up the relationship as transactional, which is ripe for abuse. (Not that ...Write her a letter. Tell her all the things about her that you love, and all the ways you can't imagine living your life without her. Even if you're not a good writer, write it in your own words from your heart. There is 100% no better gift than that, and she'll love it and probably keep it for the rest of her life.Apparently, Kate and Doug have been having marital problems for some time. OP's husband has been texting Kate on the down low, despite promising not to do so. And he admits to talking trash about his own wife. He's been, at a minimum, emotionally cheating and deceiving OP for years - and possibly a lot more.. Real talk. Your dad is an AH. BUT he’s paying fNah you made an assumption it was wrong. U ADMIN MOD. AITAH For telling my husband's secret? My (29f) husband, Charles (30m) went to his brother, Frank's (28m) bachelor party last weekend. Frank's fiancée, Jess (26f) was very vocal about her boundaries. She did not want him to go to a strip club because she finds it disrespectful and unnecessary. Jess is a very good friend of mine and ... My husband and I have been together for 4 years. I have two k My husband has always stood up for me in these scenarios. My MIL's birthday was last weekend, and my husband wanted to throw a celebration at our house. We went the whole nine yards with a cake and decorations. My husband also asked for my help picking out a very expensive handbag as a gift. I love my husband and I know he loves his mom, so I ...By the end of the night, he owed my brother-in-law around £5,000 which isn’t the type of money my brother can just easily hand over. When I saw my brother he looked like he was on the verge of a panic attack. After I forced him to tell me what happened I confronted my brother-in-law who thought the entire thing was just some harmless fun. Based on your other comments: Your ex gives Emily $25 a week for lunc...
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